By Robert Earl Houston
My heart aches for the family of Pastor Jarrid Wilson, who tragically committed suicide. Ironically, he was known for being a suicide prevention pastor, who advocated for the same malady that took his life.
Whenever a pastor commits suicide (and it’s happening more now than ever) it gives one pause. When I first started preaching in 1978, I cannot recall hearing about suicide among clergy. My instincts tell me that it must have occurred, but people were way very less transparent than they are today.
Being a pastor is not an easy job. That is for sure. We get box seats to great days in peoples lives and we get front row seat to the worst days in the lives of people. We get the opportunity to serve God’s people while at the same time receive some of our most painful wounds at the hands of God’s people. We get to worship God with amazingly gifted people and at the same time are held to standards that people don’t enforce for themselves.
I’ll never forget that in a previous pastorate that I had decided to stay away from local high school sporting events. There were no professional or minor league teams in that town. But I decided, why not? So my wife and I went to a high school football game and one of my members walked up to me and said, “When my son was playing you didn’t come. I guess he’s not on your favorites list.” I immediately got my wife and we left. I went back to my original plan and it showed me that you can’t even attend as sporting event without receiving undue criticism.
The truth of the matter is that when people look at pastors they automatically view them of the lens of Sunday mornings. Not in the view of having to juggle professional duties, home duties, and in some cases secular jobs if you are multiple streams of income and/or bi-vocational. In my first church I was bi-vocational and I found out this truth: You can take your church work to work but you can’t take your work to the church.
Not to mention the stress and strains that you have to absorb on behalf of your family. When the stage lights are turned off, the instruments hushed, and the building is cleared, you have to go home. Sometimes the person that you are married to has been a casualty of collateral damage. Some people will go through your spouse or your children to get to you. In some cases, it makes a child refute the church and they no longer believe in your Jesus because of the actions of people. I’m one of those parents who have watched a child walk away from the church.
What’s being discussed in recent years is the mental health of pastors. I have no shame in saying that because of the stress in a previous pastorate that I sought out (and still undergo) therapy with a mental health professional. He’s on the “Pastor’s Team” along with my general physician, my dentist, my barber, my foot specialist, my banker, my friends, my mentors, my Computer salesperson – all that help keep me together. Sadly, I was one of the many, who looked at life and said “this is not worth it” and contemplated suicide. But thank God for the Holy Spirit and those around me who made it an option and not a final answer.
I’m in a great season in life. However, there are many pastors who are not. It would help if instead of, out of formality, saying, “hey Rev., what’s up?” That a member or team of members could go to the Pastor and say “Pastor, how are you doing? How’s your mental health?” It may sound insulting, but it’s not.
Encourage your pastor to rest.
Encourage your pastor to take vacations.
Encourage your pastor to enjoy your area.
Encourage your pastor to go to ball games.
Encourage your pastor to take up a hobby.
Encourage your pastor to go to movies.
Encourage your pastor to take time and grieve.
Encourage your pastor to spend time with his family.
People can be cruel. In a previous pastorate, I had served faithfully for years. I hadn’t had an increase in pay or benefits in six years. In a Deacon Board meeting I requested consideration for a raise. The words that came back were chilling to the soul and almost tipped me over the edge: “What have you done to deserve one?” After preaching, teaching, burying, marrying, standing in hospital rooms, offering comfort at funerals, doing bulletins, doing graphic arts, etc. – my heart was crushed. But, God is faithful. However, I could have easily that night become another statistic.
I’m grateful for pastors like my friend, Dr. E. Dewey Smith, and others who have with me, rang the bell as loud as we can . . . Pastor, you do not have to suffer in silence. Please seek the help that you need and deserve to have. It’s better to go to a mental health professional and discover all is well than to not go and be unwell.
You can be saved, sanctified, filled with Holy Ghost . . . And depressed. The spiritual does not always align with the mental/physical. I pray this helps someone.
by Robert Earl Houston
For the record, there is no less Holy Ghost nor Revelation for those who are led to manuscript a sermon than it is for those who do not. You’re not more profound because you don’t use notes and I would never attack anyone for their style of preaching.
I think there is not one style of preaching that fits all. I personally utilize manuscript preaching because I want to be concise, constructive in my preachment, and want to stay on point and on the text.
And yet some of my biggest influences in preaching either used notes, a full-blown manuscript, or memorized their previously written manuscript. You still have to study. You still have to pray. You still have to do research. You still have to hear from God.
Oh, that we could celebrate each other’s gifts rather than to create a non-spiritual litmus test of “preferred preaching styles.” Last I checked, I thought we were all preaching for the same goal – that souls would be saved, edified, and drawn closer to the Lord.
Just a few words from someone who has been preaching for 41 years . . . and found the style that fits me best.
By Robert Earl Houston
All of the National Baptist Conventions have the same problem – REGISTRATION. It doesn’t matter which convention, who the president is, the process has become cumbersome and marked by dramatic lines at all of the conventions. No one asked me, but these are some helpful suggestions from someone who has been on both sides of the table, taking into consideration that this is 2019:
1. Make Online registration available throughout the convention to the close of business on Thursday evening/Friday morning. An area can then be designated for pickup of materials.
2. (Announced in late night last night): Make registration available at the Late Night Services, therefore registration can literally be from 7 a.m. to Midnight (why not???).
3. Partnership with a computer firm (or a partner) and place 10-15 registration kiosks in the registration area, similar to what is in our airports nowadays.
4. Recycle delegate badges – make them generic and at the end of the session, allow delegates to drop them off at various areas for use at the next session.
5. Have more credit card readers or utilize online credit card inputs for processing of credit cards (no one should have to wait in line and then have the person doing the registration wait in another line to use a credit card reader).
6. Use Givelify for Church and Personal registration with an option and link it to the Church registration code.
7. Utilize some of the young people, who are very computer literate and savvy to work the computers. This should not be done by anyone who is not familiar with computers and their functions.
8. Design the registration process and eliminate everything at one station. Why not try three step process – check in at one desk, pay at another, and pick up materials at a third station.
9. Have a separate station for State Conventions and District Associations – and encourage them to register online as well.
10. Partnership with a vendor and offer water and/or juices (or something healthy) to those in line. Also, consider a number system where people can sit down and wait for their number to be called (similar to DMV) – helpful especially when you have a lot of senior delegates.
This is not a knock of anyone’s convention and I regret that when I talked about the registration process I was in yesterday, someone used it as a personal attack against a convention leader (which I swiftly removed when I was made aware of it). Not interested in being negative – I love (and have been a member) of all four of the traditional baptist conventions. I just want to see us do better! I support NBC and President Young; NBCA and President Tolbert; PNBC and President Stewart; and NMBCA and President Sharp.
by Robert Earl Houston
At press time, arrangements have not been announced for the following ministers. However, I did want to share the information of their home goings and as the information is made available I will update the page:
Services are pending:
by Robert Earl Houston
1. It’s not as easy as it looks. Touch your neighbor and say “It’s not as easy as it looks.”
2. Studying proficient preachers will aid in becoming a proficient preacher. However, the goal is not to become a carbon copy because God has given you special gifts and talents and limitations.
3. Never judge a sermon that looks like it “missed it.” Sometimes the Holy Spirit will take the foolishness of preaching and use the sermon to change somebody’s life. Many a Sunday I’ve beaten myself up over a sermon to look on Facebook to see the words “Pastor preached . . .”
4. The first person to hear the sermon should always be yourself.
5. Never choose to preach a sermon based on a suggestion from a relative or a commercial on television or something that sounds pithy. Prayer and The Bible should be the first and primary stop in sermon preparation.
6. A good steak will make its own gravy. Never cook the gravy first and then try to find a steak to put under it. Do not get caught up in spending three days practicing your whoop and thirty minutes in sermon prep.
7. A sermon that ignores the cross is a sermon that ignores the hope that was provided for us in blood. Jesus Christ should be invited into every sermon as the guest of honor.
8. Stick to the text. Rabbit hunting season resulted in Elmer Fudd being injured and that may happen to the preacher.
9. An Associate Minister should not preach “pastoral sermons” – if your pastor is under attack, your sermon may not help him, but hurt him. It’s not your job to “straighten out the church” on behalf of the pastor.
10. Keep three sermons on you at all times – one in your head, one in your heart, and one in your pocket (iPhone, iPad).
This is not a criticism nor a critique. This is just a few words from someone who has been an Associate Minister and matriculated to a Senior Pastor over the course of 42 years. My desire as I knock on the door of 60 is to be a blessing to preachers and pastors, especially this next generation – which I believe will be THE critical generation to the Church.
Vacant Pulpit: Christian Love Baptist Church Modesto, CA
Filing Open July 1, 2019- Closing Deadline September 2, 2019 5:00 pm
Christian Love Baptist Church in Modesto, CA is prayerfully seeking a pastor called by God and equipped to effectively preach and teach God’s Word. The candidate must be a born again, baptized believer in Jesus Christ with the ability to also fulfill the spiritual needs of the congregation through visitations, prayer and administering the Ordinances of the Church.
(1 Timothy 3:1-13; Titus 1:5-9)
Principle Responsibilities and Accountability:
Bachelor’s Degree and/or equivalent experience in Pastoral Ministry. Graduate of an accredited seminary/divinity school or Bible College preferred.
Must be an ordained preacher of the Gospel.
A minimum of three years of Pastoral experience as Baptist Pastor or an Assistant to the Pastor is preferred. (1 Timothy:3:1-13)
**All Applicants will be subject to a Background Check
Interested Applicants must submit required information (via mail, post marked by the application closing date September 2, 2019 5:00 pm) to:
Pulpit Search Committee
Christian Love Baptist Church
Modesto, CA 95351
Courtesy: Progressive National Baptist Convention, Inc.
Homegoing of the Saints – Dr. Thomas H. Peoples, Jr. (Lexington, KY) & Dr. Earl A. Pleasant (Inglewood, CA)
Within the past week two exceptional leaders have answered the clarion call of the Lord – Dr. Thomas H. Peoples, Jr., venerable pastor of the Historic Pleasant Green Missionary Baptist Church of Lexington, KY and Dr. Earl A. Pleasant, founding pastor of the Greater New Bethel Missionary Baptist Church of Inglewood, CA.
LEXINGTON, KY – I had the privilege of working with and preaching for Dr. Peoples on several occasions. He was instrumental in my name being submitted by him as the sole candidate for President of the Kentucky State Convention of the Progressive National Baptist Convention, where I served two complete terms. I had the privilege of serving as his guest speaker for his Women’s Day and Men’s Day programs, respectively. Dr. Peoples served as a past President of Simmons Bible College (now Simmons College of Kentucky) and past President of the Congress of the Progressive National Baptist Convention. He was a denominational leader in the Consolidated Missionary Baptist District Association, the General Association of Baptists in Kentucky, and he continued to lead Historic Pleasant Green as they were making transition to a new church plant.
His homegoing services have been announced as follows: (from Milward Funeral Directors):
The Reverend Doctor Thomas Howard Peoples, Jr. was born June 17, 1939 in Lexington, Kentucky to the late Thomas Howard Peoples, Sr. and the late Bettie D. Peoples. He was happily married for 56 years to his loving, supportive, and devoted wife, Doctor Delma L. Peoples. To their union, was born five children: Thomas Howard Peoples, III, Pastor Stewart Titus Peoples, Pastor Samuel U. Peoples (Benita), Pastor David (Margaret) Rodmann People, and Bettina (Anthony) L. Wright; one sister Charles Peoples Brown; two nieces among others, Bethany RayAnne Brown and Pamela (Walker) Cheatham; the late Howard Peoples and surviving Ted Peoples. There are 12 grandchildren, three great-grandchildren, and a host of extended family.
Dr. Peoples was a soul-winner of thousands for the Lord Jesus Christ in addition to a mentor for preachers and pastors across the country. Denominational leaders noted him as a “Father in the Ministry.” Peoples successfully pastored First Baptist Church of Bracktown, Kentucky for 10 years, First Baptist Church of Versailles, Kentucky for 5 years, and Historic Pleasant Green Missionary Baptist Church of Lexington, Kentucky for the last 41 years. He earned degrees from Simmons Bible College, the Lexington Theological Seminary, and received numerous honorary degrees and awards for his service. He was named by leaders and recognized by the media as one of the top ten church leaders in Kentucky.
Peoples was a Navy Veteran, Civil Rights Leader, Seminary President, Academy Founder, Moderator, Congress President, a renowned scholar, lecturer, eulogist and revivalist. He was a beloved and respected community leader known for his sacrifices to encourage the hospitalized, incarcerated, the poor, and the marginalized.
Visitation will be from 12:00 PM to 3:00 PM and 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM, Monday June 17, 2019 at the Historic Pleasant Green Missionary Baptist Church and from 9:30 AM to 10:45 AM, Tuesday, June 18, 2019 at Heritage Hall East Hall. A Masonic Rite of Passage Ceremony will be held at the church on Monday at 7:00 PM. Funeral Services will be on Tuesday at 11:00 AM at Heritage Hall East Hall.
INGLEWOOD, CA – Early this morning, word has quickly spread that another legendary minister had passed – the Rev. Earl A. Pleasant, founding pastor of the Greater New Bethel Missionary Baptist Church of Inglewood, California.
Dr. Pleasant’s father was the legendary Dr. Earl Pleasant, founding pastor of the Mount Moriah Missionary Baptist Church. Dr. Pleasant served Greater New Bethel approximately 40 years. During that time he was active in the California State Baptist Convention and in the National Baptist Convention of America, Inc. International under the leadership of Dr. E. Edward Jones and Dr. Stephen John Thurston.
Dr. Pleasant was well respected among ministers throughout the nation. His sister is the songwriter and arranger, Dr. Margaret Douroux, who served as his Minister of Music until her retirement.
As of this writing, homegoing services are pending. Please keep this family in your prayers.